Have you found your relationships shifting lately? As a species, we are all evolving and going through big transformations. Since we are all doing this at some level or other, our connections with others are changing as well. This can feel very uncomfortable, sad, or scary. The good news is that while our outer relationships are shifting, we are also being given an opportunity to deepen our relationship with ourselves.
A question came up in a class I am taking that really impacted me. The question was “What are you proud of about yourself or your accomplishments?” Try really being open to your feelings on that question. Are you proud of yourself? What are you really proud of about yourself? What do you have to celebrate about who you are and what you have done? Notice if you feel any discomfort around the idea of being proud of yourself.
In our society, we are often trained not to be proud. It usually isn’t considered a compliment if someone is described as being proud. And yet, shouldn’t we be proud of who we are? Isn’t that an indication that we are choosing to be someone we love and admire? To me, this isn’t about arrogance. It is about giving ourselves the approval that we may not have gotten in our outer world. It is about being truthful with ourselves, forgiving ourselves for our mistakes, and really seeing the bigger picture about who we are and why we are here. It is about being your own best friend. I find when I feel safe with me, I feel safe with the rest of the world. Perhaps this is a good time to let ourselves love all of who we are – and to encourage and acknowledge our accomplishments along the way.
This week, the Intuitive Life Coaching Class focuses on the topic of Loving Relationships. The purpose of these classes is to teach a process using Quantum Physics and Emotional Freedom Technique (along with some intuitive insight) to help us free ourselves from limiting beliefs that no longer serve us. As we clear these beliefs, we can escape feelings of unworthiness which often lead to insecurity and misunderstandings with those we love. Details are below if you’d like to participate:
When: Thursday 5/21 at 7PM EST on the conference call line (Call will be recorded if you aren’t able to participate live).
What to Expect: We will work through the process of identifying a limiting belief around relationships (with yourself or another) and do tapping and some other techniques to clear the belief and replace it with a more empowered one. Mini readings will be offered for each of the participants anonymously (you will be told the number you are before the call) and an intention will be set that all messages will hold gifts for all participating. There is a worksheet to use for the call (and you can use it again for work independently on this topic or another focus).
How to Register and Love Exchange Rate: $30/person ($25 for Crossroads Coaching Community Members). I have TWO spots left. If you are interested in participating, you can learn more and sign up here: Classes
Whether you participate in the class or not, I hope that you take a few minutes to listen closely to yourself this week. Feel out how you respond to the idea of giving yourself the approval and love that you deserve. As we become safe with ourselves, we are better able to be open and loving with others. And isn’t that the goal after all?
Sending much love to all!